There’s no doubt we’re all going to need one, but when is it right to start planning a funeral – our own or one for someone we may have responsibility for in the future?
The reality is, there’s no right or wrong time.
However, in our experience, planning ahead of time can allow families to make decisions without the added pressures associated with grief. It also affords loved ones to share personal preferences for their funeral – such as whether they would like flowers, or a specific vehicle.
So, here’s our top 10 considerations for arranging a funeral.
- Burial or cremation are the first choices to make when planning a funeral. Where you live, availability of land, access to facilities, costs, and environmental preferences may influence your choice. This will also contribute to a coffin choice which is an important early decision.
- Who will lead the service is often high on the agenda: clergy, celebrants, family and friends may have a role in shaping a funeral.
- The type of event usually starts to become clear at this stage. It’s important to get a feel for the sort of funeral anticipated: formal, contemporary, individual, elaborate or something paired right back with no traditional elements at all. This can come from speaking to relatives of the person who’s died, or reviewing the deceased’s Plan of Wishes.
- Another key consideration is where to hold a service. There are many options available today, including churches, crematoria, service rooms and other venues. This decision will be by location, size and facilities required on the day.
- Transport is also important as most people will have a hearse. Our premium Land Rover Defender hearse offers brand enthusiasts and owners alike a truly personalised, meaningful final journey.
- Music at a funeral can be extremely personal with a range of hymns, songs, or live performances creating a more personal send off. Nowadays these are not limited to inside venues with outside broadcasting and A/V support available where possible.
- Flowers too are a common feature of many funerals and can range from large tributes, named and themed to simple posies made commercially or taken from a garden.
- Notices include obituaries online and in newspapers. It’s also worthwhile considering what tributes are needed on the day as these are increasingly popular as keepsakes in both print and digital form.
- Memorials for future generations include gravestones, urns, jewellery, soft furnishings or object d’art made from ashes or clothing to commemorate a loved one.
- Talk to William Purves at any time. If you have any questions about arranging a funeral , do not hesitate to get in touch. Arrangements can be made at any time and we’re here to offer guidance and take away any worry or doubts.
Every funeral is different and in our experience, planning a funeral ahead of time can be the kindest thing you can do for your loved ones. The tips above should help to guide your thoughts and encourage you to consider which elements are most important for you.
If you are interested in creating a truly memorable, personal funeral service, take a look at our Land Rover Defender Hearse to commemorate a life well travelled.
Get in touch with us at [email protected] to discuss hiring our iconic hearse for a funeral or find the nearest branch to you at williampurves.co.uk
